For a lot of families, a call from school means trouble. That's why a positive call lands so hard. When a parent hears "I wanted to tell you something good about your kid," the conversation at home changes, and the student usually shows up the next day knowing you noticed.
Keep it short and specific
A positive call doesn't need to be long. Two minutes is plenty. Say who you are, say one specific thing the student did, and thank the parent. "Marcus helped a classmate who was stuck on the lab today without being asked" is far more powerful than "Marcus is a great kid."
Start with the students who need it most
It's easy to call about the students who are always doing well. The bigger impact comes from calling about a student who struggles. Find one good moment, even a small one, and call about that. It can be the start of a better relationship with the student and the family.
Build it into your week
Make it a routine so it doesn't get lost:
Two calls every Friday afternoon
One text or email a day during your planning period
A class list where you check off each student you've contacted
With a class list, you can make sure every student gets at least one positive contact each grading period.
Text and email count too
If calls are hard to fit in, a short positive email or text works. The point is the message, not the method. The parent-teacher communication log on Elevate the Norm helps you track who you've reached.
It makes hard calls easier
When you've already made a positive call, a later call about a problem goes better. The parent knows you see the good in their child. The email to parents about student behavior guide covers the harder conversations.
Part of a bigger system
Positive calls work best as one piece of a classroom culture built on noticing what students do right. Elevate the Norm is built around that idea, with positive reinforcement strategies and a free resource library.
Keep going
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